First Kiss Advice

It sets the stage for other kisses that follow.

If it goes well, you are in.

If it wasn't a good kiss, then chances are you aren't going to get a second chance.

A man isn't going to forget his first kiss with the girl of his dreams, so if you play it right, you will make a great impression on him.

First Kiss Advice: What to avoid at all costs

A clumsy kiss.

Bad timing.

Bad choice of location.

Too many people around or to much noise.

Forcing your tongue into his mouth.

Being rough or trying to be extra passionate.

Make sure you are alone and no one will disturb you at the wrong moment.

It is quiet and romantic, not noisy and crowded.

You are physically and mentally ready for it.

Watch each other until you sense it is time. Don't kiss when you are distracted by something else (like hunting in your bag for car keys)

Read his body language. Is he leaning towards you, is he staring at your lips, is his face tilted down towards yours?

Are you holding hands or have you been touching before this. If not then don't kiss first.

Under no condition should you ask before you kiss. That'll take all the fun out of it.

During The First Kiss

Keep your eyes open as you let your mouth descend slowly.

Let them close only when your lips meet.

Lift your chin and slide your arms around his neck, or cup his cheek with one hand

Once you are kissing, forget the world. Take all the time you need to make it a memorable experience. Loose yourself in the kiss and the various sensations that you feel while being held close and being caressed.

Go very very slow.

Start by running your fingers through his hair, or caressing his cheek. Then kiss his cheek and move across to plant a soft, sensuous, gentle kiss on his lips.

Pretend you are kissing the most handsome man in the world and don't want to lose this opportunity.

Keep on caressing his body throughout the kiss and let him lean against you, when he goes weak with passion.

Don't initiate any tongue kissing, unless you really want to do it.

And last but not least, please don't slobber. Control your saliva levels, nobody likes to have it dripping into their mouth. A good kiss should be wet, but not sopping wet

Draw apart slowly as though coming up for air.

Stroke his cheek with one hand or run your hand over his shoulder (touch him in a way that seems natural).

Then look deep in to the eyes and drop your gaze to his lips.

Lean forward and plant a short, closed mouth kiss on the lips. Sort of like an ending to a paragraph.

Then link your hands together and carry on back to what you were doing, walking under the stars or talking softly.

It is important to be at ease with each other, so that you don't feel awkward later on.

At the same time, it is natural to feel self conscious, so don't leave your date right away, spend a few extra minutes with him so that any beginning awkwardness melts away.

Romantic & Passionate: Think of long walks, snuggled up somewhere warm when it's cold and rainy outside. Think of flowers and eager lip-nibbling kisses.

Intimate: Think of slow dancing, riding a horse together, or kissing while sitting in his lap.

Fast Paced: When you know each other better and you minds are in tune. Otherwise keep it slow and sexy. You could steal a fast paced kiss virtually anywhere, while waiting for the train to come, or at the movies.

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