Let's Create a Women Winning Mindset

Okay now that you have the destructive thoughts out of the way, what is the mind set that you have when you go up to a woman with the purpose of a bit of chatting, a bit of flirting, maybe asking her out, or going in for the kiss...

Now what exactly is mindset? The dictionary describes it as 'a habitual or characteristic mental attitude that determines how you will interpret and respond to situations' Basically mindset is the sum of all your experiences.

So if most of the experiences you have had with women are positive, your mind set towards women will be positive and you will enjoy and revel in a higher rate of success.

That is one way of looking at it. The other way is to ask yourself this question, 'What are you thinking of when you approach a woman?'

What is going on in your head? Do you think you have to make it with this very girl, or it's the end of the world?
Instead of it being a casual conversation, do you tie yourself and your ego into knots when you approach a girl.

So if she says no (no matter how politely), it is No not only to whatever the Plan was, but No to you as a Person, an Individual and No to your Pride and Ego.

Look at the power you are handing over to the other person by tying up your very self with rejection.

A simple "No can affect:
• Plan
• Person
• Individual
• Pride and
• Ego

But she only said No to the plan, whatever it was. Not to you as a person!

She said no to a coffee, or a movie or whatever ... so why should her not having coffee or whatever with you, affect you so much about your Inner Self?

Why should you grant her so much power over you?