Sexual Communication - How to Talk to Her

Don't wait for opportunity to strike but make your own.

There are no rules to follow accept the following:

Don't embarrass her: You want to kiss her not own her. So don't kiss her in front of people she might be uncomfortable with, like her parents, elder brother etc.

Don't repulse her: That means no kissing after eating Indian curry, garlic, any other strong flavored foods, smoking (if she's a non smoker) etc.

Don't drool : Don't let saliva drip into her mouth. Swallow it before you start to kiss.

Don't be rough: Be gentle and smooth. Slow and easy does the trick. Don't mash her lips. Start out gently.

No French Kissing : No tongues on the first kiss, unless she opens her mouth and initiates it. Remember you want her to come back for more, not run away gasping.

Don't wait for opportunity to strike, but create your own. For example, if you know she always goes for a walk at a certain time to a certain place, you could manage to be there, just by chance.

Ask her for help with a project, or a favor - even if you don't need it. Make friends with her circle, so that you come to be an accepted part of the clique.

Walk her home, or drive her home. Check out a movie together, or go to the library together. Basically, what you have to do is become familiar with her life style, so that you can judge which is the best way of getting her to yourself.

Incidentally a lot of girls' aren't so much into waiting and will often let you kiss on the first date. My advice would be, not to kiss them on the first date, but to let the anticipation build till later.

However, if she is all over you and wants to flirt, well go with the flow but leave her wanting...

Read on and learn unbelievable openings for kissing girls.

Positive Impact Phrases

You are so beautiful.

I love your skin.

I love the way you blush (only if she actually blushes).

I love the way your hair ripples and curls (twirl a curl in you finger and say it half abstractedly).

You have a perfect figure.

I could kiss you forever.

The curve of your lips drives me insane.

You smell so sweet (kiss) and so sexy (kiss).

I am jealous of everyone you ever kissed (don't overdo this one).

Do you like being kissed slowly (kiss slow and light) or deeply (give her a deep, drugging kiss).

What would you do if I kissed you ( and kiss her without waiting for an answer).

Don't say 'I love you' unless you mean it (even if you mean it, don't say it too soon)

Don't use crude male imagery till later in the relationship and then only if she likes it: words like, 'I love your tits. You have such a hot ass. When I kiss you I wanna fuck! Instead try saying it differently, 'I love your breasts, they are perfect and made for me, see how they fit in my hands. I love to watch you walk, I love the sway of your hips, you have such a sexy walk. When I kiss you, I can barely stop myself from tearing off your clothes to make mad, passionate, love to you'.

Don't say, 'You don't kiss as well as So and So, or you kiss better than So and So'.

Don't pass comments like, 'Try being a bit tactile, open your mouth' (anything that will put her on the defensive and cause her to start thinking, instead of only feeling)

Don't suddenly announce, 'You know what? You are one hot chick' (Each of us is a girl and we dream of our prince in his shining armor. We certainly don't dream of being one hot chick)

You could whisper a sexy comment in her ear and just let your lips touch her ear, as you talk.

Or you could finish your comment and gently bite her ear before breaking away.

Drop a kiss on the side of her neck. Just be creative and do what comes naturally.