Battling the Paralyzing Fear of Rejection and Building Self Confidence!

What do the past masters of kissing, the Don Juan's of today and the men with the prettiest woman, have in common?

It's self confidence. A total lack of the fear of rejection!

It's the knowledge, that the fact that they find a woman attractive, will be enough to influence the game in their favor.

Stop! Understand the power of that statement.

These men, that are successful with women, all KNOW that being attracted to a women, and not fearing rejection, is the perfect formula for success with women!

Did you know, that for most women, the greatest aphrodisiac is, knowing a suave, charming, self-assured man finds them attractive. They all but melt at the idea.

Do you find that shocking to believe? Has it ever worked for you? Has the fact that you wanted a woman; been enough to turn a woman on.

No?

Let's consider the key elements of the sentence I wrote above. 'For most women the greatest aphrodisiac is, knowing that a suave, charming, self-assured man finds them attractive...'

To get back, the key words are ' For most women'. It does not mean each and every woman in the world and you certainly would not want to kiss each and every woman that came your way regardless of looks, age and/or figure.

Most women in this context refer to confident, attractive women who feel comfortable in their femininity, who don't need to cut down a man to feel good.

Is it charisma, magnetism, authority, or sex?

No! It is simple, plain old self-confidence and the authority that comes with being true to your self.

So let's analyze rejection and how to overcome it, so you can approach a girl with confidence, authority and sex appeal.

Do You Need Approval?

How would you define yourself? As a person who needs a lot of approval, a little approval or one who is really happy go lucky and has a devil care attitude. Do you need all the people to like you all the time, or some of the people to like you some of the time or is it okay if a few people like you some time or the other?

Unfortunately, nature has provided us with an in built need for approval, which is directly related to your levels of self-esteem and confidence. That's why everyone needs approval.

But the question here is, just how much approval do you need? If as a child you felt a misfit or had idealistic role models, or were not loved enough or unconditionally, chances are your desire for approval are more than most people's.

You probably have more trouble with relationships with a tendency to be very dependent on the other person. In a way you can 'smother' a relationship to death. You seek approval from almost every one who plays an important role in your life.