Eye Contact and Kissing ~ a Subtle Magic

What is the very first thing that draws you to someone, the very first thing that will attract your gaze even across a crowded room.

All of us at sometime or the other, have felt a jolt of physical awareness when we look up to find ourselves being watched and lock eyes with the watcher.

Our body's response is instantaneous.

If a girl is attracted to the other person, the response can range from interest, to mild desire (a flutter of anticipation) to downright arousal (breasts tightening up, bolts of excitement streaking through the belly and of course getting wet - where it matters).

A lot of it is instinct: looking deep into someone's eyes is the start of the mating game and also mimics behavioral patterns that start the courtship dance.

Here's how you can learn to read the language of the eyes.

Eye Communication - tactical seduction...

The eyes mirror our emotions and feelings. With practice you can learn to read the message in them, especially once you get to know the person who is behind the eyes.

Eye communication can convey everything and nothing, so learning to decipher this secret language is a must, especially if you want to be a successful kisser.

Looking directly at someone for a small period of time, without looking away signals the start of the game. It means you are interested.

If she looks back at you, or catches you looking at her (in the act so to speak) and still continues to look at you ever so often, though maybe very briefly, to see if you are still checking her out - than that means she is interested.

If she breaks eye contact and looks away quickly with maybe a look of disgust on her face, she is not interested.

If she doesn't want to meet your eyes and keeps looking away at everyone else but you, she is definitely not interested and you should stop wasting time and move on to the other (much talked about) fish in the sea.

Don't stare too boldly. If she is squirming in her seat, tone it down. You don't want her to think that you are a stalker.

Don't undress her visually, especially in a public place. The only exception to that rule is as a prelude to lovemaking, when you are both hot for each other. Then it is a must, the slower the visual undressing, the better it is.

Don't eye other women when you are with her. It shows disrespect and any girl with an ounce of self esteem will send you packing.

Above all, show her that you are listening to her and value her as a human being. Not that she means nothing more to you, than tits, ass and lips (crude but you get the point I am sure).

Before Kissing
Look into her eyes and don't break eye contact as you inch in closer. Don't close your eyes until your lips meet.
When in doubt follow her lead. That doesn't mean behavior that is unnatural.